In a world where numbers inexorably take over as our means of identification, like flowing lava threatening to suffocate and fosilize all breathing life in its path; in a world where 'normality' is defined as keeping your cool; where sex is so available that the only way to preserve any inner center is to have intercourse without committing yourself--in such a schizoid world, which young people experience more directly since they have not had time to build up the defenses which dull the senses of their elders, it is not surprising that will and love have become increasingly problematic and even, as some people believe, impossible of achievement.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Modern society reduces human identity to data and enforces emotional detachment, making genuine will and love difficult to achieve.
- In plain terms
- When numbers and emotional control dominate, people struggle to form deep connections.
- What can you take from it?
- Guard your inner life against systems that reduce you to data.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How much of your identity is defined by numbers?
- What defenses do you use to keep your inner life?
Another view
Some argue technology enhances connection rather than replacing it.
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