When we 'fall' in love, as the expressive verb puts it, the world shakes and changes around us, not only in the way it looks but in our whole experience of what we are doing in the world. Generally, the shaking is consciously felt in its positive aspects ... Love is the answer, we sing. ... our Western culture seems to be engaged in a romantic - albeit desperate - conspiracy to enforce the illusion that that is all there is to eros.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love disrupts our perception of the world, yet culture often oversimplifies it as a magical fix.
- In plain terms
- Love changes how we see everything, but culture sells it as a simple solution.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize love’s power but avoid the illusion it solves everything.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What does love change for you?
- Do you expect love to fix your life?
Another view
Not all love is disruptive; stable love often feels quiet.
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