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What does it mean?
Care means something matters to us, and this feeling is the root of tenderness. Without care, human connection lacks warmth.
In plain terms
Care is what makes things matter and creates tenderness.
What can you take from it?
Caring is the foundation of human warmth.

Where it applies

  • raising children
  • friendship
  • healing

Putting it to work

  • practicing empathy
  • active listening
  • showing appreciation

Questions to consider

  • What matters to you right now?
  • How do you show care?

Another view

Care can sometimes lead to pain if the cared-about thing is lost.

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