When I fall in love, I feel more valuable and I treat myself with more care. We have all observed the hesitant adolescent, uncertain of himself, who, when he or she falls in love, suddenly walks with a certain inner assuredness and confidence, a mien which seems to say, 'You are looking at somebody now.... This inner sense of worth that comes with being in love does not seem to depend essentially on whether the love is returned or not.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love increases self-worth and confidence regardless of whether it is reciprocated.
- In plain terms
- Falling in love makes you feel more valuable and walk with more confidence.
- What can you take from it?
- Love boosts your self-esteem even if it is not returned.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does love change how you see yourself?
- Do you value yourself more when loved?
Another view
Unrequited love can also lead to significant emotional pain.
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