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I have a talent for silence and brevity. I can keep silent when it seems best to do so, and when I speak I can, and do usually, quit when I am done. This talent, or these two talents, I have cultivated. Silence and concise, brief speaking have got me some laurels, and, I suspect, lost me some. No odds. Do what is natural to you, and you are sure to get all the recognition you are entitled to.

Rutherford B. Hayes#31

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Hayes values silence and brevity noting they brought mixed results but urges natural communication.
In plain terms
Being quiet and brief helped him but doing what feels natural is key.
What can you take from it?
Natural communication style brings recognition.

Where it applies

  • public speaking
  • business meetings
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • cultivate concise speech
  • practice active listening
  • be authentic

Questions to consider

  • Is silence better than talk?
  • How do you communicate best?

Another view

Silence can be misunderstood as lack of engagement.

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