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What does it mean?
All grief is equally significant, regardless of the size of the loss, because proportion applies universally.
In plain terms
Grief is equally real, big or small.
What can you take from it?
Respect all forms of loss.

Where it applies

  • personal loss
  • community mourning

Putting it to work

  • offer support
  • avoid minimizing sorrow

Questions to consider

  • How do you respond to small versus large losses?
  • Can grief be measured?

Another view

Some losses have broader impact than others.

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