When others insult, rebuke and speak unpleasant words to us, although an intolerable pain arises like a thorn at the heart, if we comprehend the teachings then we can recognize the essenceless nature of these words which resemble an echo. So just as when an inanimate object is scolded, we will experience not the slightest mental turmoil.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Insults hurt, but seeing them as empty words removes their power.
- In plain terms
- Don't take insults to heart.
- What can you take from it?
- Ignore harsh words to stay calm.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you handle criticism?
- When do insults matter?
Another view
Sometimes words signal real problems that need addressing.
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