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What does it mean?
Healthy relationships are based on love exceeding dependency.
In plain terms
Love each other more than you need each other.
What can you take from it?
Love without dependency.

Where it applies

  • romantic partnerships
  • friendships
  • family ties

Putting it to work

  • practice gratitude
  • maintain hobbies
  • support independence

Questions to consider

  • Do I love or need this person?
  • How can I be more independent?

Another view

Some relationships require deep interdependence to function.

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