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What does it mean?
Only criticize someone if there is a valid reason.
In plain terms
Do not talk badly about people unless they did something wrong.
What can you take from it?
Have a good reason before criticizing.

Where it applies

  • gossip
  • performance reviews
  • social conflicts

Putting it to work

  • pause before speaking ill
  • verify facts before judging

Questions to consider

  • What counts as a valid cause?
  • Who decides what is disrespectful?

Another view

Some harmful behavior needs public criticism regardless of cause.

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