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What does it mean?
Most people are interesting for a short time, but only a few can stay interesting over a longer period.
In plain terms
Many people are interesting for an hour, but few last more than two.
What can you take from it?
Sustained interest in a person requires depth beyond surface charm.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • interviewing
  • networking

Putting it to work

  • focus on substance over novelty
  • cultivate depth in relationships

Questions to consider

  • What keeps someone interesting over time?
  • Do you judge people by their initial charm?

Another view

It values novelty too much and may dismiss quiet people.

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