I was weeping because Richard Parker left me so unceremoniously. What a terrible thing it is to botch the farewell. I am a person who believes in form, in the harmony of order. Where we can, we must give things meaningful shape. It is important in life to conclude things properly. Only then can you let go. Otherwise you are left with words you should have said but never did, and your heart is heavy with remorse. That bungled good bye hurts me to this day. p.316-317
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The narrator regrets the abrupt way Richard Parker left him and feels unresolved.
- In plain terms
- He is sad because the goodbye was messy and lacked closure.
- What can you take from it?
- Proper closure is essential to let go of past attachments.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How important is a good goodbye?
- What unfinished business do you have?
Another view
Some departures are sudden and do not allow for proper closure.
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