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What does it mean?
Understand that communication between minds requires patience due to differing perspectives or processing speeds.
In plain terms
When talking to someone else, be patient because they think differently than you do.
What can you take from it?
Allow patience for differing perspectives when communicating.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • intimate conversations

Putting it to work

  • active listening
  • setting expectations

Questions to consider

  • How do you adjust your pace when someone processes slower?

Another view

Not all differences in perspective are due to time lag.

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