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What does it mean?
People become angry when norms are broken because they see it as a personal critique.
In plain terms
Breaking conventions triggers anger because it feels like a personal attack.
What can you take from it?
Understand that offense often reflects self‑insecurity.

Where it applies

  • when traditions change
  • in workplace reforms

Putting it to work

  • communicate changes as collective growth

Questions to consider

  • How does personal identity tie to social norms?
  • What eases resistance to change?

Another view

Some people welcome change without feeling threatened.

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