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What does it mean?
To influence a child effectively, adults must step back from authoritative roles.
In plain terms
Do not act like a parent when trying to influence a child.
What can you take from it?
Avoid parental authority when guiding a child.

Where it applies

  • child guidance
  • mentorship
  • education

Putting it to work

  • mentor without authority
  • build rapport

Questions to consider

  • How do you influence without authority?
  • What is the role of a parent?

Another view

Children often need parental boundaries to feel safe.

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