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What does it mean?
Instead of asking for forgiveness, people should strive to understand one another.
In plain terms
Understanding others is more important than asking for forgiveness.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize understanding over forgiveness in conflicts.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal relationships
  • disputes

Putting it to work

  • practice understanding
  • seek empathy before forgiveness

Questions to consider

  • Is understanding better than forgiveness?
  • How can you understand others better?

Another view

Sometimes forgiveness is needed even without full understanding.

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