No one wants advice, only corroboration.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People prefer confirmation of their views over actual advice.
- In plain terms
- People want others to agree with them instead of giving advice.
- What can you take from it?
- Seek feedback, not just agreement.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do people prefer agreement over advice?
- When is corroboration actually needed?
Another view
Sometimes advice is indeed unwanted even when it is helpful.
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