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What does it mean?
Bad behavior stems from arrogance, poor temperament, and lack of intelligence.
In plain terms
Bad manners come from pride, bad temper, and ignorance.
What can you take from it?
Cultivate humility and empathy to improve conduct.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • workplace dynamics
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • practice humility
  • listen more
  • educate yourself

Questions to consider

  • What drives rude behavior?
  • How can you improve your manners?

Another view

Some bad manners stem from stress rather than character.

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  3. Good manners is the art of making those people easy with whom we converse. Whoever makes the fewest persons uneasy is the best bred in the company.

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