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What does it mean?
Cho humorously defends the idea of giving unnecessary oral sex, mocking those who claim all such acts are welcome or needed.
In plain terms
She jokes that some people think any amount of oral sex is required, even when it isn't.
What can you take from it?
Not every sexual act needs to be justified or desired.

Where it applies

  • discussions about sexual expectations
  • comedic takes on relationships

Putting it to work

  • laughing at unrealistic expectations
  • setting boundaries

Questions to consider

  • When do we feel pressured to perform unnecessarily?
  • How do we define consent and desire?

Another view

The joke relies on shock value which may alienate some audiences.

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