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What does it mean?
There are often other potential partners who may be better suited for someone.
In plain terms
Many guys exist who might be a better match than I am.
What can you take from it?
Self-awareness can acknowledge better alternatives exist.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • dating
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • accept limits
  • encourage seeking better fit
  • move on

Questions to consider

  • How do you know you are enough?
  • When is stepping back right?

Another view

This assumes worth is comparative rather than intrinsic.

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