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What does it mean?
Wilde jokes that having too many wives (bigamy) and having one (monogamy) are essentially the same problem of excess.
In plain terms
Both bigamy and monogamy involve having too much of something.
What can you take from it?
Avoid extremes in relationships.

Where it applies

  • marriage counseling
  • social expectations
  • personal values

Putting it to work

  • reflect on relationship expectations
  • seek healthy boundaries

Questions to consider

  • What does 'excess' mean in love?
  • How do you define healthy partnership?

Another view

Monogamy is culturally distinct from bigamy.

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