Buck up and be jolly, my dear lady! Stillbirth is a sign that God has a sense of humour!
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Wilde darkly jokes that a stillbirth is a cosmic joke, reflecting a grim sense of humor about tragedy.
- In plain terms
- He treats a tragic loss as a twisted joke.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize humor can mask deep pain.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is humor appropriate in grief?
- How does humor affect mourning?
Another view
Such jokes can be insensitive to sufferers.
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