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I want kids, a family of my own. I'd like to give them the first eight years of their lives in the country. Then I'd want them educated, which I wasn't formally, although I had a tutor once when I was twelve. At times I miss a formal education, but at others I thank God for everything else I have now. What I have got from my childhood aren't toys, but memories. And happy memories are better than any toy.

River Phoenix#33

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker expresses a desire to raise children in the country with a balance of informal learning and formal education, valuing memories over material goods.
In plain terms
They want their kids to grow up in the country, get educated, and have happy memories instead of toys.
What can you take from it?
Happy childhood memories are more valuable than material possessions.

Where it applies

  • planning parenting
  • discussing education
  • valuing experiences

Putting it to work

  • prioritize memories over toys
  • plan childhood environment
  • value informal learning

Questions to consider

  • What matters more: toys or memories?
  • How should children be educated?

Another view

It overlooks the practical benefits of formal education for future opportunities.

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