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What does it mean?
The true English vice is not a sexual act but the refusal to express emotions due to fear of looking weak.
In plain terms
The real problem is refusing to show how you feel.
What can you take from it?
Express your emotions instead of hiding them.

Where it applies

  • workplace stress
  • family dynamics
  • social interaction

Putting it to work

  • practice talking
  • ask for help
  • accept feelings

Questions to consider

  • Are you hiding your feelings?
  • Why do you fear emotion?

Another view

This view might reflect outdated cultural stereotypes.

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