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Now in all of us, however constituted, but to a degree the greater in proportion as we are intense and sensitive and subject to diversified temptations, and to the greatest possible degree if we are decidedly psychopathic, does the normal evolution of character chiefly consist in the straightening out and unifying of the inner self. The higher and the lower feelings, the useful and the erring impulses, begin by being a comparative chaos within us - they must end by forming a stable system of functions in right subordination. Unhappiness is apt to characterize the period of order-making and struggle.

William James#65

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Character evolution involves unifying inner impulses into a stable system.
In plain terms
Growing up means making your inner thoughts consistent.
What can you take from it?
Unify your impulses to form good character.

Where it applies

  • personal development
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • reflect on inner chaos

Questions to consider

  • What impulses conflict in you?
  • Are you making order?

Another view

The process of making order can cause significant unhappiness.

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