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What does it mean?
A humorous statement about shared history where most hardships were caused by the other person.
In plain terms
We went through a lot together, but you caused most of it.
What can you take from it?
Shared struggles often blame one side.

Where it applies

  • friendship conflicts
  • partner arguments

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge faults
  • avoid assigning blame

Questions to consider

  • Who really caused the trouble?
  • How do you share blame?

Another view

It oversimplifies shared responsibility in relationships.

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