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What does it mean?
A character who turns every answer into a cliché lecture about self-esteem irritates others.
In plain terms
Constant self-help talk becomes annoying and cliché.
What can you take from it?
Avoid clichéd advice in conversation.

Where it applies

  • group therapy
  • casual talk

Putting it to work

  • speak authentically

Questions to consider

  • When does advice become noise?
  • Is self-esteem overrated?

Another view

Some appreciate positive reinforcement.

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