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What does it mean?
Competing with neighbors is pointless if they are already trying to match your success.
In plain terms
Check if others are copying you before you copy them.
What can you take from it?
Focus on your own path instead of copying others.

Where it applies

  • discussing social status
  • advice on jealousy

Putting it to work

  • self-help writing
  • community discussions

Questions to consider

  • Why do we compare ourselves to others?
  • When is competition healthy?

Another view

It assumes everyone is trying to keep up with someone.

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