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[While her father was a political prisoner in Cuba] I was always singing and dancing and reciting poems -- that was how I used to do my crying over my father. There were a lot of negotiations between the US and Cuban governments over the next couple of years [1961 - 1963]. [Castro proposed an exchange of prisoners for food, medicine and building machinery], and eventually my dad was released. It was wonderful to have him home -- it was probably the happiest time in my life. For once, the whole family was together, living a normal life. That was when my sister, Becky, was born [1964], and it was also when I started guitar lessons. I would lock myself away in my room for days, learning how to play. Even then I was beginning to work out that music was a way to cut throught all the BS.

Gloria Estefan#102

MusicFamilyResilienceChildhoodCopingHealing

About this quote

What does it mean?
Music helped Estefan cope with family trauma and political instability while nurturing her artistic growth.
In plain terms
She used singing and guitar to deal with sadness and family struggles.
What can you take from it?
Music can be a healing outlet during hard times.

Where it applies

  • family crises
  • emotional distress
  • childhood challenges

Putting it to work

  • use music for emotional release
  • create safe creative spaces

Questions to consider

  • What helps you process difficult emotions?
  • How did your art evolve during tough times?

Another view

Artistic coping doesn't solve underlying systemic or political issues.

More from Gloria Estefan

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  2. You know, I don't know about this 'Diva thing,' O.K. This 'Diva thing' is getting a little out of hand, I think. I mean if anything, I'm a divette.

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  3. I was 16 months old when I left Cuba, so I really don't remember anything [about Cuba].

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