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What does it mean?
Two people avoid a funeral out of fear, judged as selfish by another.
In plain terms
Avoiding a funeral is called selfish.
What can you take from it?
Emotions can affect participation in mourning.

Where it applies

  • family gatherings
  • memorial services

Putting it to work

  • offer support to those struggling
  • avoid harsh judgments

Questions to consider

  • When is it okay to skip a funeral?
  • How can we compassionately address others' grief?

Another view

Self‑preservation can be understandable.

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