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Women my wife's age with broken marriages take up robustly with fellows much younger than themselves, sometimes boys, and their husbands don't like that part of it at all. (It's a means they have of really sticking it to us. The husbands can do without the money and kids. But they can't abide their wives' humping a younger dick and letting everyone know.)

Joseph Heller#31

RelationshipsInfidelityJealousyMarriageRevenge

About this quote

What does it mean?
Married people sometimes act out against their spouses by pursuing younger partners.
In plain terms
Some spouses flirt with younger people to upset their partners.
What can you take from it?
Relationship dynamics can involve petty revenge.

Where it applies

  • divorce scenarios
  • marital strife
  • social gossip

Putting it to work

  • understand dynamics
  • communicate
  • avoid conflict

Questions to consider

  • Why do people seek validation?
  • How does jealousy affect love?

Another view

This view assumes malice in personal choices.

More from Joseph Heller

  1. In my middle years, I have exchanged the position of the fetus for the position of a corpse.

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  2. Women don't suffer from penis envy. Men do.

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  3. When I grow up I want to be a little boy.

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