My fantasies have never been safe ones. Don't fuck with me, unless you understand that.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker warns that their fantasies are not safe and demands understanding before engaging.
- In plain terms
- My fantasies are not safe, so understand that before you get involved.
- What can you take from it?
- Be clear about your boundaries and risk tolerance.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you communicate your risk tolerance?
- What happens if they don't understand?
Another view
Warning partners does not guarantee safety or consent.
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