There are times when I just want to walk through a room, grab that girl, slap her hard and make her cry. Push her down and fuck her mind over twice as hard as her body. Sometimes, I want to be that girl.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker expresses intense, violent fantasies involving dominance and submission, including identifying with both roles.
- In plain terms
- Sometimes I want to dominate violently, sometimes I want to be dominated.
- What can you take from it?
- Acknowledge complex and intense fantasies without judgment.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What fantasies feel out of reach?
- How do you manage intense desires?
Another view
Violent fantasies should not be acted out without clear consent.
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