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What does it mean?
Wainwright responds to a screaming fan by calling it a tragedy that he is gay.
In plain terms
He jokingly calls it a tragedy that he is gay when fans scream.
What can you take from it?
Irony can diffuse intense fan reactions.

Where it applies

  • fan interaction
  • public speaking
  • identity defense

Putting it to work

  • respond with irony
  • diffuse tension
  • state facts

Questions to consider

  • How to you handle screaming fans?
  • What is a tragedy here?

Another view

It could be seen as self-deprecating rather than empowering.

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